How do you go about working on a relationship that you aren’t sure would work?
2 years was an investment in both of us,  and yes some people have stayed in longer and didn’t have their relationship work… So we are in limbo, an attraction that is still there but festered by events.

Well, we’ll see what happens… never say never.

Anyway, I’ve been looking up things for our apartment, including paint choices. Things at IKEA to purchase, and things at Costco. I love writing the lists because I am so excited. So excited to paint, so excited to move. By the way, don’t use Rapid Reality they seem to be a little cunning. They gave back our “deposit” We paid for a credit check and of course, didn’t get to see the results since we didn’t get the apartment that we were promised – they didn’t coordinate with the landlord to know that he had already rented it! So it’s like we paid $40 for NOTHING. They gave us back the deposit minus that $40. Then of course we didn’t have a similar space that they could have helped us get so we couldnt use their service. Ugh so lame. Anyway, we tried bkapartments and they were really good.